{"id":9469,"date":"2012-11-27T10:37:00","date_gmt":"2012-11-27T14:37:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/?p=9469"},"modified":"2012-11-27T10:37:00","modified_gmt":"2012-11-27T14:37:00","slug":"tribute-larry-hagman","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/tribute-larry-hagman\/","title":{"rendered":"TRIBUTE: LARRY HAGMAN"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1>LARRY HAGMAN<\/h1>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I feel a tad odd paying tribute to a man whose major television series (<em>Dallas)<\/em> I never saw, and whom I met only once. But that meeting made such an impression on me that I want to share it here.<\/p>\n<p>When I was a young actress, starting out in the headiest of ways,(by meeting some venerable older movie stars,) I was at a party at David Wayne&#8217;s house. (I still don&#8217;t see how that was even possible!) I was so star-struck by the assemblage, which included Lynn Redgrave and Fernando Lamas, that I could barely speak! (Shocking, I know, but true.)<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/Larry-Hagman-as-J.-R.-Ewing-.jpg\" title=\"Larry-Hagman-as-J.-R.-Ewing-\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-9472\" title=\"Larry-Hagman-as-J.-R.-Ewing-\" src=\"http:\/\/www.itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/Larry-Hagman-as-J.-R.-Ewing--216x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"216\" height=\"300\" \/><\/a>For most of the afternoon, I joined a group who was sitting on the patio facing the semi-dangerous golf course, (with plenty of captured stray balls to prove it.) I found myself right next to Larry Hagman, the real-life JR Ewing of <em>Dallas<\/em> fame! I was already taken aback by his attire&#8211;a caftan and a fez. But when I mustered-up the courage to shyly offer him some snack that was being passed, I felt awful that he didn&#8217;t answer me! He smiled slyly, but that was it. I tried again a bit later, feebly, I admit, but I felt so uncomfortable sitting there not conversing with my neighbor on the couch.<\/p>\n<p>He just smiled again. Then I noticed that he was just <em>listening<\/em> to everyone, contributing nothing at all to the show biz repartee. Finally, someone explained that he doesn&#8217;t talk on Sundays! At first, I thought they were just goofing on me, since I was, by far, the youngest person there. But they were telling the truth!<\/p>\n<p>I thought it was some weird religious rite wrapped up with the crazy wardrobe, and just accepted it, (though Mr. X and I referenced it occasionally over the years.) But, when I damaged my vocal chords several years later, and couldn&#8217;t talk for at least a month(!), I found-out that that&#8217;s exactly the reason that Larry Hagman had begun his &#8220;Silent Sundays!&#8221; He had also hurt his vocal chords and was advised by a doctor to adopt that one-day-a-week-of-silence practice. Having gone through it myself, I still don&#8217;t know how he did it. It&#8217;s so frustrating! But I know that he described it as &#8220;freeing,&#8221; so good for him.<\/p>\n<p>Since that day, I have never seen his name or image without reflecting on that meeting. That&#8217;s a pretty powerful impression to have lasted all these years!<\/p>\n<p>And now, he&#8217;s silenced forever. And you know what? I bet he&#8217;s loving being mysteriously quiet on the other side!<\/p>\n<p><strong>RIP, Larry Hagman.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>LARRY HAGMAN &nbsp; I feel a tad odd paying tribute to a man whose major television series (Dallas) I never saw, and whom I met only once. But that meeting made such an impression on me that I want to share it here. 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