{"id":66027,"date":"2026-06-29T18:21:41","date_gmt":"2026-06-29T18:21:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/?p=66027"},"modified":"2026-06-29T18:21:41","modified_gmt":"2026-06-29T18:21:41","slug":"partybook-hollywood-museums-launch-fete-for-the-book-a-letter-is-better-the-art-of-thank-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/partybook-hollywood-museums-launch-fete-for-the-book-a-letter-is-better-the-art-of-thank-you\/","title":{"rendered":"PARTY\/BOOK: HOLLYWOOD MUSEUM\u2019S LAUNCH FETE FOR THE BOOK \u201cA LETTER IS BETTER! THE ART OF THANK YOU\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1>HOLLYWOOD MUSEUM\u2019S LAUNCH FETE FOR THE BOOK \u201cA LETTER IS BETTER! THE ART OF THANK YOU\u201d<\/h1>\n<p>Throughout each year, I attend several events at the Hollywood Museum. Most of them are for the purpose of introducing a new exhibit. And they\u2019re all fabulous.<\/p>\n<p>But on a few special occasions, the equally lovely fetes are right in the lobby. And I recently went to one of those. It was to celebrate the release of a new book,<em> A Letter is Better! The Art of Thank You<\/em>, written by Erica Gerard Di Bona, who is known to be a constant letter writer. If her last name is familiar, that\u2019s most likely because you\u2019ve seen it on your TV a zillion times\u2014her husband is prolific television producer Vin Di Bona, who created <em>America\u2019s Funniest Home Videos<\/em>, and has produced a myriad of other shows.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_66025\" style=\"width: 712px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/photo-e1782695046600.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-66025\" class=\"size-large wp-image-66025\" src=\"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/photo-e1782695046600-1024x625.jpeg\" alt=\"(L-R) Erica Gerard Di Bona, Vin Di Bona, and Karen Salkin. Photo by Karen Salkin.\" width=\"702\" height=\"428\" srcset=\"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/photo-e1782695046600-1024x625.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/photo-e1782695046600-300x183.jpeg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 702px) 100vw, 702px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-66025\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">(L-R) Erica Gerard Di Bona, Vin Di Bona, and Karen Salkin. Photo by Karen Salkin.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>I love a supportive man, so Vin is right up there with Carl Reiner, who was always so proud of the singing of his wife Estelle, and of course, the most supportive guy ever, Mr. X, who not only <em>came<\/em> to most of my TV show tapings, but is actually the person who <em>created<\/em> my cable series, <em>Karen\u2019s Restaurant Revue<\/em>! (And then, as I was about to go through the curtain for my first appearance on\u00a0<em>The Tonight<\/em> <em>Show<\/em>, he got to sarcastically say, \u201cYeah, Kah, you were right\u2014doing a cable show was a bad idea.\u201d)<\/p>\n<p>And Vin Di Bona and I have a mutual very dear friend, Paul Gilbert, so I really wanted to meet Vin, especially after Paul told me that he\u2019s a \u201cgreat guy.\u201d And he was absolutely lovely. It\u2019s always fun, (and a bit rare,) to meet an uber-successful person who\u2019s also very nice. So Vin was the highlight of the event for me. (And he told me that he had just been talking about Paul that day!)<\/p>\n<p>But the entire event was good, right from the get-go, as it always is at the Hollywood Museum. There was a makeshift bar on one side of the space, with nice bartenders, and a pretty buffet set-up on the opposite end of the lobby. The fare was different than any I\u2019ve ever seen there before, which was fun because I\u2019m a fan of diversity. There were three kinds of finger sandwiches, caprese bites, (with a choice of tomatoes or blackberries on the skewers with the mozzarella chunks,) tiny onion tarts, and a whole bunch of delish desserts. I\u2019m either ashamed or proud to admit that I ate a handful of mini strawberry shortcakes in cups! The pi\u00e8ces de r\u00e9sistance were bite-sized cranberry scones. (My friend Roz said, \u201cThe cookies are hard,\u201d so I explained, \u201cThat\u2019s because they\u2019re scones!\u201d)<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_66022\" style=\"width: 712px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/IMG_1490-e1782695355888.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-66022\" class=\"size-large wp-image-66022\" src=\"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/IMG_1490-e1782695355888-1024x682.jpg\" alt=\"Just a bit of the fare. Photo by Karen Salkin.\" width=\"702\" height=\"467\" srcset=\"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/IMG_1490-e1782695355888-1024x682.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/IMG_1490-e1782695355888-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 702px) 100vw, 702px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-66022\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Just a bit of the fare. Photo by Karen Salkin.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>There was a plethora of speeches from the happy assemblage, including <em>E.T.<\/em>\u2019s Dee Wallace and Hollywood Museum Founder Donelle Dadigan. I was the most entertained by artist Shepard Fairey, (whose credits include designing that famous Obama \u201cHope\u201d poster.) He said that he and Erica had met on the Board of Trustees at The Rhode Island School of Design, (RISD,) where he went to college. I actually love that place, having gone to both the University of Rhode Island and Rhode Island College. I used to drive by RISD, and think about all the gifted artists who must be behind those walls! (I love having things in common with talented people. For example, Vin also lived in Rhode Island, and he and I both attended UCLA, as did Mr. X, also in the Master of Fine Arts program some time after Vin. And yes, I <em>did<\/em> go to all three of those colleges, and even one more!)<\/p>\n<p>The gist of the many tributes was that Erica writes wonderful \u201cthank you\u201d letters, and the recipients are so lucky. Erica herself quipped that \u201ca letter is so much better than anything.\u201d She told us that she doesn\u2019t start her letters with \u201cthank you,\u201d preferring to end with it. (But <em>I<\/em> do <em>both<\/em>!) I was happy that she and I agree on the usage of exclamation points when others say no to them! (See?)<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_66024\" style=\"width: 712px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/IMG_1513-e1782695703220.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-66024\" class=\"size-large wp-image-66024\" src=\"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/IMG_1513-e1782695703220-1024x598.jpg\" alt=\"Hollywood Museum Founder Donelle Dadigan at the podium to begin the speeches. Photo by Karen Salkin.\" width=\"702\" height=\"409\" srcset=\"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/IMG_1513-e1782695703220-1024x598.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/IMG_1513-e1782695703220-300x175.jpg 300w, https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/IMG_1513-e1782695703220.jpg 2000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 702px) 100vw, 702px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-66024\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Hollywood Museum Founder Donelle Dadigan at the podium to begin the speeches. Photo by Karen Salkin.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>I also appreciated that she said to write a letter \u201con anything\u201d and \u201cin any method that you can.\u201d Erica and my mother would have gotten along great because the latter used to write her missives on the backs of paper placemats from the restaurants my parents ate in while traveling! One of her old pals still mentions how much he always loved receiving those.<\/p>\n<p>My favorite quote of the night came from Vin. About the sound of his wife\u2019s typing, he said, \u201cIt\u2019s like hearing children laugh in a playground.\u201d What an absolutely charming and loving way to put it.<\/p>\n<p>When the speeches were over, guests could purchase the books, and Erica signed them all in the \u201cBlondes Only Room.\u201d (The hair color rooms, which are my fave part of the Museum, date back to when the building was the Max Factor Salon. I featured them on a television special I hosted on The Travel Channel way back in the day, and have adored them ever since.)<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_66038\" style=\"width: 156px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/Screenshot-2026-06-28-at-6.18.41\u202fPM-e1782696146328.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-66038\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-66038\" src=\"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/Screenshot-2026-06-28-at-6.18.41\u202fPM-e1782696146328-146x300.png\" alt=\"Photo by Karen Salkin.\" width=\"146\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/Screenshot-2026-06-28-at-6.18.41\u202fPM-e1782696146328-146x300.png 146w, https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/Screenshot-2026-06-28-at-6.18.41\u202fPM-e1782696146328-498x1024.png 498w, https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/Screenshot-2026-06-28-at-6.18.41\u202fPM-e1782696146328.png 551w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 146px) 100vw, 146px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-66038\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Photo by Karen Salkin.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>I got a gander at one of the books, and found it to be very interesting. And it\u2019s not a little coffee table book\u2014it has sooo much substance! There\u2019s even a section for \u201cYoung People,\u201d complete with advice on \u201cHow to Address an Envelope!\u201d I love life lessons that we might <em>think<\/em> are basic, but are far from it these days.<\/p>\n<p>I also love that \u201cThank You\u201d is mentioned right in the title, <em>A Letter is Better! The Art of Thank You<\/em>, because I\u2019m a stickler for saying that phrase! I actually just thanked a PR person for always thanking <em>me<\/em> for my reviews. My mother used to semi make fun of my signature, \u201cThank you so much!,\u201d but I mean it every time.<\/p>\n<p>Speaking of my little mo, (which I do a <em>lot<\/em>,) I have to say that, as a supreme letter-writer herself, she would have really liked Erica\u2019s book. And she would have enjoyed her collection of typewriters, as well. I\u2019m now the proud owner of my parents\u2019 vintage one, so perhaps I should show it to Erica sometime. I should also pick her brain about\u00a0how to put a good book together because I\u2019ve been finding some of my mom\u2019s letters around my house recently, and they are a riot! One in particular has become famous among my friends, and it\u2019s been suggested many times that I should publish a book of them so more people can laugh until they cry.<\/p>\n<p>Apropos of Erica\u2019s book about saying &#8220;Thank You, &#8220;I\u2019ll leave you with this little poem that I used to recite with my young students when I was a teacher. (See if you can spot the big mistake in it.):<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHearts like doors will ope with ease<br \/>\nTo two little words, and the words are these:<br \/>\nThank you, sir, and if you please.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Do you see the mistake? Those are <em>six<\/em> words, not <em>two<\/em>! I didn\u2019t write it, of course, because in addition to always expressing gratitude, I can also <em>count<\/em>! But I do very much believe in the sentiment. I know that Erica Gerard Di Bona does, as well. I just wish that\u00a0e<em>veryone <\/em>did.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>HOLLYWOOD MUSEUM\u2019S LAUNCH FETE FOR THE BOOK \u201cA LETTER IS BETTER! THE ART OF THANK YOU\u201d Throughout each year, I attend several events at the Hollywood Museum. Most of them are for the purpose of introducing a new exhibit. And they\u2019re all fabulous. But on a few special occasions, the equally lovely fetes are right<\/p>\n<div class=\"read-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/partybook-hollywood-museums-launch-fete-for-the-book-a-letter-is-better-the-art-of-thank-you\/\" title=\"Read More\">Read More<\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":66026,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[78,27],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-66027","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-books-2","category-parties"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/66027","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=66027"}],"version-history":[{"count":15,"href":"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/66027\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":66045,"href":"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/66027\/revisions\/66045"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/66026"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=66027"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=66027"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=66027"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}