{"id":45391,"date":"2020-07-10T08:11:58","date_gmt":"2020-07-10T08:11:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/?p=45391"},"modified":"2020-07-10T08:11:58","modified_gmt":"2020-07-10T08:11:58","slug":"tributer-i-p-carl-reiner-r-i-p","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/tributer-i-p-carl-reiner-r-i-p\/","title":{"rendered":"TRIBUTE\/R.I.P.: CARL REINER, R.I.P."},"content":{"rendered":"<h1>CARL REINER, R.I.P.<\/h1>\n<p>Even though he was ninety-eight, I literally gasped when I read that\u00a0beloved show business legend, Carl Reiner, had passed away. It\u2019s been a little over a week now, and I\u2019ve finally been able to form into words my admiration of this icon, who was always so lovely to me.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_45402\" style=\"width: 238px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/Carl_Reiner_1960_still.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-45402\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-45402\" src=\"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/Carl_Reiner_1960_still-228x300.jpg\" alt=\"Carl Reiner.\" width=\"228\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/Carl_Reiner_1960_still-228x300.jpg 228w, https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/Carl_Reiner_1960_still-780x1024.jpg 780w, https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/Carl_Reiner_1960_still.jpg 800w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 228px) 100vw, 228px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-45402\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Carl Reiner.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>I met Carl back when I was first doing my local television show. He came up to me at an event, (which was in a Century City deli,) and asked, &#8220;Are you that girl on TV?&#8221; (That&#8217;s how people referred to me back then, like I was the only female on the tube. But I always knew what they meant. And appreciated it.) And then, to my lifelong delight, he said in his Carl Reiner way, &#8220;You&#8217;re <em>very<\/em> funny!&#8221; I&#8217;ve been living off that since then.<\/p>\n<p>That was so generous of him to do for a young girl, just starting out in her career. Carl Reiner had long been established as a major show business force, first as half of a comedy duo with Mel Brooks, and later as the creator-writer-producer of (and occasional actor on) the iconic <em>The Dick Van Dyke<\/em> show, with tons of big jobs in-between.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_45399\" style=\"width: 230px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/220px-Carl_Reiner_with_Dick_Van_Dyke.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-45399\" class=\"size-full wp-image-45399\" src=\"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/220px-Carl_Reiner_with_Dick_Van_Dyke.jpg\" alt=\"(L-R) Carl Reiner and Dick Van Dyke, many years after their show.\" width=\"220\" height=\"193\" srcset=\"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/220px-Carl_Reiner_with_Dick_Van_Dyke.jpg 220w, https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/220px-Carl_Reiner_with_Dick_Van_Dyke-110x96.jpg 110w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 220px) 100vw, 220px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-45399\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">(L-R) Carl Reiner and Dick Van Dyke, many years after their show.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>After that first meeting, I bumped into him from time to time, and he was always darling to me. He even invited me to see his wife, Estelle, perform her cabaret act at a little club in town. \u00a0And even though he was as nervous for <em>her<\/em> as Mr. X always was watching <em>me<\/em> perform, he had the kindness to take me around before the show to introduce me to several of his friends and compatriots. I&#8217;ll never forget that night.<\/p>\n<p>So, to be supportive back, I attended a few of his songstress wife\u2019s subsequent shows. As much as I enjoyed her performances of classic songs, I got the <em>most<\/em> kick out of watching Carl watch her. He was absolutely filled with love for Estelle, every moment. What a love story! They were married for almost sixty-five years, until her death in 2008. (That\u2019s amazing, on <em>any<\/em> level, but especially since she was almost eight years older than Carl! He got married at just twenty-one, and went all through his illustrious career with just one woman. That\u2019s a show biz miracle, in <em>my<\/em> book. And a perfect example of true love, and what soulmates are.) [Note: I was hardly able to find a photo of them in which he does <em>not<\/em> have his arm around her! I love that!]<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_45400\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/539w.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-45400\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-45400\" src=\"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/539w-300x232.jpg\" alt=\"Carl and Estelle Reiner.\" width=\"300\" height=\"232\" srcset=\"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/539w-300x232.jpg 300w, https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/539w.jpg 539w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-45400\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Carl and Estelle Reiner.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>I had one other memorable experience with Carl. We were at the opening night of a major musical in town, one about old Hollywood. Just about every single person I had grown up watching on the big screen was in attendance that night. I bumped into Carl in the lobby and he told me to find him at the party, so he could introduce me to Sid Caesar! I almost passed-out.<\/p>\n<p>So, the party was one of the best I had ever been to. And, since my little TV show was at the height of its popularity right then, many of the guests were coming up to me all night, which, of course, I adored, but that fun caused it to become later and later to get over to Messrs. Reiner and Caesar. My less-than-chivalrous and very antsy date said he was leaving then, with or without me. But, even in a time without being able to call for a car service, (firstly because there were none in those days, and secondly because we didn\u2019t have phones to do it with!,) I chose to call his bluff (or so I thought) because I was anxious to go over to Carl\u2019s table.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_45405\" style=\"width: 235px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/Unknown.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-45405\" class=\"size-full wp-image-45405\" src=\"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/Unknown.jpg\" alt=\"(L-R) Sid Caeser and Carl Reiner.\" width=\"225\" height=\"224\" srcset=\"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/Unknown.jpg 225w, https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/Unknown-150x150.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-45405\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">(L-R) Sid Caeser and Carl Reiner.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>So I did, and was rewarded with the warmest welcome from him, and being gloriously introduced to Sid Caesar! What a memory for me to have. I\u2019m beyond grateful for it. (And yes, my date <em>did<\/em> leave me, without even letting\u00a0me know, so I spent about an hour looking for him before giving-up and bumming a ride from a semi-acquaintance. But it was all worth it. And, very shockingly, we\u2019re still friends today!) [Note: By the way, Sid and his wife got married in the same year that Carl and Estelle did, and lasted forever, as well! Talk about simpatico!]<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_45401\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/2774.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-45401\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-45401\" src=\"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/2774-300x180.jpg\" alt=\"(L-R) Mel Brooks and Carl Reiner.\" width=\"300\" height=\"180\" srcset=\"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/2774-300x180.jpg 300w, https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/2774.jpg 700w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-45401\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">(L-R) Mel Brooks and Carl Reiner.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>I wish I had known Carl Reiner longer and better. I hadn\u2019t seen him in a while, but have always been a fan of everything he\u2019s had to say, especially his hope that this country will get better with a new President in the Fall. If that <em>does<\/em> come to pass, (as every normal person prays that it will,) I\u2019ll be sad that Carl\u2019s no longer on this level of life to celebrate with us all. But I feel that somehow he\u2019ll know.<\/p>\n<p>In the meantime, I\u2019m heartbroken for his family. And what a loss for the world. But I\u2019m grateful that we had this brilliant man around, and still going strong, for almost a century. And I&#8217;m happy that he&#8217;s now reunited with his beloved wife, Estelle.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Rest in peace, Carl Reiner.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>CARL REINER, R.I.P. Even though he was ninety-eight, I literally gasped when I read that\u00a0beloved show business legend, Carl Reiner, had passed away. 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