{"id":18706,"date":"2015-05-14T18:11:11","date_gmt":"2015-05-14T18:11:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/?p=18706"},"modified":"2015-05-14T18:12:25","modified_gmt":"2015-05-14T18:12:25","slug":"new-yorkspecial-day-one-year-since-i-left-new-york-for-good","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/new-yorkspecial-day-one-year-since-i-left-new-york-for-good\/","title":{"rendered":"NEW YORK\/SPECIAL DAY: ONE YEAR SINCE I LEFT NEW YORK FOR GOOD"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1>ONE YEAR SINCE I LEFT NEW YORK FOR GOOD<\/h1>\n<p>[Doesn&#8217;t that sound like the title of\u00a0a Broadway show tune? \u00a0Or a country song?]<\/p>\n<p>When I was watching Game 3 of the Brooklyn Nets-Atlanta Hawks play-off series, they showed a four second clip of the area right by my beloved Brooklyn Ice Cream factory.\u00a0 When I later showed it to Mr. X, I just broke down in tears.\u00a0 I&#8217;ve never been away from Brooklyn this long.\u00a0 Today is one year since I left my childhood home for good.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_18717\" style=\"width: 235px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"http:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/img_0542_copy.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-18717\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-18717\" src=\"http:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/img_0542_copy-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"Me, in front of my beloved house for the last time.  I look distraught because...I am!!!\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/img_0542_copy-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/img_0542_copy-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/img_0542_copy.jpg 1620w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-18717\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Me, in front of my beloved house for the last time. I look distraught because&#8230;I am!!!<\/p><\/div>\n<p>I first left there when I was a teen-ager, but meant for it to be for just that summer.\u00a0 I didn&#8217;t expect to fall in love with Los Angeles, and take-up permanent residence here.\u00a0 But I never moved anything from my Brooklyn home; quite the opposite, actually.\u00a0 I always brought more stuff to New York; either gifts for my parents, or items that I didn&#8217;t have room for in my LA home, or products for the purpose of having a full set of necessities (cosmetics, medicines, vitamins, shampoos, clothing, etc.) there, so the next time, I could pack just presents for everyone in my suitcases. (Along with, of course, a few fabulous new outfits to show off!)<\/p>\n<p>But this column isn&#8217;t to once again lament the loss of my home, and the torture I went through emptying it out.\u00a0 Today&#8217;s purpose is to let my East Coast pals know how much they continue to mean to me.\u00a0 And they&#8217;re not just my &#8220;east coast pals.&#8221;\u00a0 They&#8217;re all my forever friends, and I seriously miss them all the time.<\/p>\n<p>So, I want to share some of my wonderful memories from the five weeks I spent in Brooklyn at this time last year.\u00a0 [Note: These are aside from all the invaluable assistance on the house these peeps gave me.]\u00a0 These instances were truly oases in the torturous time I had there otherwise. \u00a0I could have easily been pushed way over the edge without these in-between-the-work special moments, all courtesy of my friends.<\/p>\n<p>I actually have even more stories than these, but here are some highlights, in no particular order. (And I&#8217;m proud to say that these are all off the top of my head, from a year ago!, without looking at my appointment book for that time!) Here goes:<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_18714\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"http:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/img_0209_copy.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-18714\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-18714\" src=\"http:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/img_0209_copy-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"The seder table at Manny's Photo by Karen Salkin.\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/img_0209_copy-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/img_0209_copy-1024x768.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-18714\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">The seder table at Manny&#8217;s Photo by Karen Salkin.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Enjoying a true New York Passover seder, (which I hadn&#8217;t had in very many years,) at Manny&#8217;s beautiful Upper East Side home with Sheila, Eamonn, Shirley, and Mallory.<\/p>\n<p>Attending a surprise screening, produced by a college mate of Eamonn&#8217;s from San Francisco, with Eamonn and Sheila, (who had driven ten hours in from <em>Ohio<\/em> to help me clear out the house!)<\/p>\n<p>Easter brunch, (and the search for it!,) with Sharon.<\/p>\n<p>Finally getting to go to Brooklyn Star bowling alley, (for a party,) with Thomas and Anita, (who had come all the way from Rhode Island to help me with the heavy lifting!)<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_18725\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"http:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/img_0436_copy1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-18725\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-18725\" src=\"http:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/img_0436_copy1-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"The indoor patio at Spumoni Garden. Photo by Karen Salkin.\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/img_0436_copy1-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/img_0436_copy1-1024x768.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-18725\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">The indoor patio at Spumoni Garden. Photo by Karen Salkin.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>My last wonderful dinner at my precious Spumoni Garden, courtesy of the super-pleasant owner, Lenny, with Anna.<\/p>\n<p>The miracle of tracking down a stranger (in the middle of a street!,) I had given a &#8220;sight&#8221; machine to, to give him the instructions I found the day before I left forever, with Helen and Amanda.<\/p>\n<p>The kindness of Lauren, Scott, and Taylor to include me in their Mother&#8217;s Day dinner, which I know was a big hassle to do (even though I&#8217;m sure none of them felt that way about it.)<\/p>\n<p>Bumping into beautiful couple Valerie Harper and Tony Cacciotti just walking down the street in Manhattan!<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_18719\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"http:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/img_2424_copy.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-18719\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-18719\" src=\"http:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/img_2424_copy-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"The view looking down at the Brooklyn Ice Cream Factory, under the amazing Brooklyn Bridge. My car is the one in the middle. Photo by Karen Salkin.\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/img_2424_copy-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/img_2424_copy-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/img_2424_copy.jpg 1632w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-18719\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">The view looking down at the Brooklyn Ice Cream Factory, under the amazing Brooklyn Bridge. My car is the one in the middle. Photo by Karen Salkin.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>My last time at Brooklyn Ice Cream Factory with Betsy and Sharon #2, and us just sitting out there, enjoying the scenery, ice cream, and each other (including admiring our nail polishes.)<\/p>\n<p>Discovering the best burgers in Brooklyn with Adrienne.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cFiguring it out\u201d with Sharon. (Every time we weren&#8217;t sure about something, Sharon said, \u201cWe&#8217;ll figure it out.\u201d I wonder if we ever really did!)<\/p>\n<p>Having Manny, my longest-tenured friend in New York, spend the last evening in the house with me to put the finishing touches on all my uber-hard work.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_18715\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"http:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/img_0426_copy.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-18715\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-18715\" src=\"http:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/img_0426_copy-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"Cinco De Mayo restaurant on Cortelyou Road. Photo by Karen Salkin.\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/img_0426_copy-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/img_0426_copy-1024x768.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-18715\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Cinco De Mayo restaurant on Cortelyou Road. Photo by Karen Salkin.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Cinco de Mayo dinner with Helen and Sharon at a place near my house called&#8211;guess what?&#8211;Cinco de Mayo!!!<\/p>\n<p>Attending a big Manhattan bridal show, followed by an impromptu hip Chinese dinner, with Lauren and Sharon.<\/p>\n<p>Going to two crazy soirees in one night in Manhattan with Anna.<\/p>\n<p>Every single minute I spent with the two people who worked possibly even harder than <em>I<\/em> did on the house, Sheila and Lauren.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_18724\" style=\"width: 235px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"http:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/img_2549_copy.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-18724\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-18724\" src=\"http:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/img_2549_copy-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"The work horse, in my alley for the last time. Photo by Karen Salkin.\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/img_2549_copy-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/img_2549_copy-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/img_2549_copy.jpg 1224w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-18724\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">The work horse, in my alley for the last time. Photo by Karen Salkin.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>And I cannot forget that final\u00a0ride in my old Buick, (which Mr. X and I had very affectionally dubbed \u201cThe Work Horse,\u201d because a Triple A guy had once told us\u00a0that&#8217;s what it was,) with Sheila and\u00a0Mike, to none other than Nathan&#8217;s Coney Island!\u00a0 What a perfect last Brooklyn trip\u00a0that was for the old guy.<\/p>\n<p>Looking back over that month plus, I didn&#8217;t realize I fit in so many happy times!!!\u00a0 Good thing I never slept!<\/p>\n<p>Unfortunately for me, I have an even longer list of all the <em>horrors<\/em> I suffered on that last New York trip,\u00a0but, as I concentrate more and more on the good times I listed above, the bad memories begin to recede a bit.\u00a0 And for all these, and more, I&#8217;m a very grateful girl, and I can&#8217;t thank all my pals enough, for <em>everything<\/em>!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>ONE YEAR SINCE I LEFT NEW YORK FOR GOOD [Doesn&#8217;t that sound like the title of\u00a0a Broadway show tune? \u00a0Or a country song?] When I was watching Game 3 of the Brooklyn Nets-Atlanta Hawks play-off series, they showed a four second clip of the area right by my beloved Brooklyn Ice Cream factory.\u00a0 When I<\/p>\n<div class=\"read-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/new-yorkspecial-day-one-year-since-i-left-new-york-for-good\/\" title=\"Read More\">Read More<\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":18711,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[46,26,50,61],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18706","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-karens-thoughts","category-all-things-new-york-and-bicoastal","category-special-days","category-whatevers"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18706","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18706"}],"version-history":[{"count":10,"href":"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18706\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":18733,"href":"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18706\/revisions\/18733"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/18711"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18706"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18706"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18706"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}