{"id":11019,"date":"2013-04-24T08:36:24","date_gmt":"2013-04-24T12:36:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/?p=11019"},"modified":"2013-04-24T08:36:24","modified_gmt":"2013-04-24T12:36:24","slug":"miscellaneous-im-in-new-york-for-the-next-month","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/miscellaneous-im-in-new-york-for-the-next-month\/","title":{"rendered":"MISCELLANEOUS: I&#039;M IN NEW YORK FOR THE NEXT MONTH"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1>I&#8217;M IN NEW YORK FOR THE NEXT MONTH<\/h1>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m happy to be in New York again, but this trip is bittersweet.  This will be the end of my bi-coastal way of life, that I&#8217;ve had since I was a teen-ager.<\/p>\n<p>In my late teens, I went to L.A., which was just supposed to be the final destination of my cross-country summer sojourn.   (Actually, come to think of it, I had<em> no<\/em> specific plans; I just knew when I had to be home for the beginning of the college semester.  I had given absolutely no thought to when or how I was going to get there!)<\/p>\n<p>[Note to that last thought:  I don&#8217;t whether to chastise my young self for being such a dunce, or be jealous of such a carefree existence!]<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/newyorkcity2.jpg\" title=\"newyorkcity2\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-11023\" title=\"newyorkcity2\" src=\"http:\/\/www.itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/newyorkcity2-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" \/><\/a>So, when I decided to stay in L.A., that was it.  But I was a kid, and my family and friends were still in New York.  So, I went back and forth forever after, with a brief stint in Rhode Island, as well.  There has never been a year since that I haven&#8217;t been back and forth between the coasts.  And that&#8217;s the way I like it.<\/p>\n<p>To be honest, there were many years there, after I left, where I <em>hated<\/em> New York.  Everything about it was a hassle.  (And still is.)  But then I told myself that I&#8217;m a lucky girl to be able to spend so much time here, a place that millions of people dream of getting to even once in their lives!  And I&#8217;m so glad that I decided then and there to be grateful and always enjoy the ride.<\/p>\n<p>And I&#8217;ve stuck by that.  Even though I loathe deciding travel dates and making flight reservations more than anything else in the world, and I also hate leaving Los Angeles at any time because I have so much to do there, I know that I&#8217;ll be extremely sad to not spend three different months a year in the Big Apple.<\/p>\n<p>More than missing my pals, the food, and the many social activities the great city has to offer, I&#8217;ll miss my house in Brooklyn.  I don&#8217;t know any other adult (I just changed that last word from \u201cgrown-up\u201d because I am definitely not that!,) who has lived at least partially in the house they grew up in for their whole lives.  No wonder I abhor change and growing-up!<\/p>\n<p>I never even moved my belongings out to California when I decided to stay there!  So, I&#8217;m now cleaning-out memories dating as far back as my birth.  Literally.  I could truly open a Karen Salkin Museum.  But, I&#8217;m so bad with money, the admission fee would be what<em> I<\/em> pay <em>you<\/em>!<\/p>\n<p>Okay, I think I&#8217;m getting off track here.  But me cleaning out my house should really be a reality show, though I don&#8217;t know how much I&#8217;m really willing to share.  (For instance, Mr. X and I once found a list there, a very short list, I might add, of the guys I had had sex with, and how many times each.  Next to the name of my first teen-age boyfriend, I had written something like \u201ca million\u201d&#8211;I told you I&#8217;m bad with numbers&#8211;and it went down to \u201ca half.\u201d  We still haven&#8217;t figured exactly what that means, and I don&#8217;t think I really want to know.)<\/p>\n<p>Of course, I won&#8217;t be doing any of it alone.  It takes a village&#8230;  So, I really want to thank, in advance, the pals who will be staying with me at the house, and working hard: Peter, Diane, Ronald, Sheila, Richard, Jeff, Ethan, John, Lauren, Taylor, Scott, Marcia, Jill, Cliff, Manny, Scott, Helen, Laurel, Lou, and Noelle.  It won&#8217;t quite rival the time had in the <em>Jersey Shore<\/em> abodes, but we&#8217;re not there for fun, per se.  And at least we&#8217;ll be doing this all before we turn into the <em>Golden Girls<\/em>!  (And <em>Guys<\/em>.)<\/p>\n<p>Okay, off-track again.  I really just want to let you know where I am, and to let you know to look-out for all the upcoming columns about the East Coast fun I&#8217;m having.  If there&#8217;s anything in particularly you want me to check-out, please let me know.  You can do it as a Comment below, and just tell me if you don&#8217;t want it published.<\/p>\n<p>And if you&#8217;re headed this way, and I know you but didn&#8217;t get around to telling you of my whereabouts personally, please let me know so we can be powerful jet-setters together! You won&#8217;t even have to help with the house!<\/p>\n<p>[Note: you can always check me out on Twitter, @KarenSalkin, for the up-to-the-minute scoops on my trip.] <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;M IN NEW YORK FOR THE NEXT MONTH &nbsp; I&#8217;m happy to be in New York again, but this trip is bittersweet. This will be the end of my bi-coastal way of life, that I&#8217;ve had since I was a teen-ager. In my late teens, I went to L.A., which was just supposed to be<\/p>\n<div class=\"read-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/miscellaneous-im-in-new-york-for-the-next-month\/\" title=\"Read More\">Read More<\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11019","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11019","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11019"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11019\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11019"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11019"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/itsnotaboutme.tv\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11019"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}